There’s something about fishing that just feels good for the soul. Whether it’s a day spent drifting quietly on still waters, casting your line past the breakers on the beach, or heading out wide with your closest mates, it offers a gentle reprieve from the relentless buzz of everyday life. For so many of us – Kiwi men and women alike – fishing isn’t just about bringing home a fresh feed (though there’s nothing quite like that first bite of a self-caught kai). It’s about pausing to breathe, letting the hum of busy schedules fade into the background, and reconnecting with those who matter most.
This pause is crucial. It’s a chance to set aside the constant to-do lists, the pressures of fitting in a work and home life balance, and fitting in on social media. Instead, you tune into the steady rhythm of the swell, the tug of nibbles on your line, and the comfort of the fresh air and sunlight.
It’s in these quiet moments that we encourage you to find some space to talk to one another – not just as fishing buddies – but as people who carry burdens and problems, struggles and stresses. These are some of the best times to check on our mates.
Because here’s the thing: it’s not always obvious when someone is hurting. Sometimes a bloke who laughs at all the right times, who seems strong and steady on deck, might be quietly wrestling with feelings we can’t see. Often, those laughing and joking the loudest can be hurting the most.
Take a moment – ask how they’re doing, and be ready to really listen. There’s no shame in encouraging the people around us to open up and talk about what’s on their minds. We all need to know that it’s okay to not be okay, and that nobody has to struggle in silence.
Recently, we lost one of our own, Rod Eddowes. Rod was an absolute legend, the embodiment of a quintessential Kiwi – engaged, involved, driven and seemingly at peace. His loss reminds us that mental health battles are often fought quietly and unseen by those who we love and care about. We lost an amazing colleague, his family lost an incredible father and husband, and the world lost a gentle, kind soul.
Rod Eddowes
So we want to honour Rod by doing more than just dropping a line into the water. Let’s drop our guard, speak honestly, and listen to what our mates have to say. Out there on the ocean where nobody else is listening, we can use that place to lend an ear and offer some understanding.
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